Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship

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Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship Author Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
ISBN-10 1608820580
ISBN-13 9781608820580
Year 2012-01-02
Pages 200
Language English
Publisher New Harbinger Publications
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What the heck is my partner thinking is a common refrain in romantic relationships and with good reason Every person is wired for love differently with different habits needs and reactions to conflict The good news is that most people s minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security attachment and rituals making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts Wired for Love is a complete insiders guide to understanding your partners brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust Synthesizing research findings on how and why love lasts drawn from neuroscience attachment theory and emotion regulation this book presents ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship Strengthen your relationship by Creating and maintaining a safe couple bubble Using morning and evening rituals to stay connected Learning to fight so that nobody loses Becoming the expert on what makes your partner feel loved By learning to use simple gestures and words readers can learn to put out emotional fires and help their partners feel more safe and secure The no fault view of conflict in this book encourages readers to move past a warring brain mentality and toward a more cooperative loving brain understanding of the relationship This book is essential reading for couples and others interested in understanding the complex dynamics at work behind love and trust in intimate relationships While theres no doubt that love is an inexact science if you can discover how you and your partner are wired differently you can overcome your differences to create a lasting intimate connection

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